Tuesday, 23 December 2014

A reflection

I don't like to list things that I'm hopeful for, or want to achieve in the year ahead. What will be will, after all, be. I do, however, like to reflect on the year I just lived, laughed and loved through.

I'm grateful for all the incredibly diverse humans I met around the world, for the wonderful folk I've become so acquainted with via this blog and Twitter and for the inspirational space scientists, Ebola volunteers and sexual freedom campaigners who I may never meet but who have me in awe.

To everyone who helped me publish my first erotica book, who encouraged me to buy latex, who gave me tattoo advice; another heartfelt 'thank you'. To the beautiful subs who have joined me in my discoveries; you are exquisite, fascinating and so incredibly sexy. 2015 now seems so full of promise.

G and I have been together now for 12 years and I swear she grows prettier by the day. She is all of the things I have mentioned above and so much more as well. My goddess, my genius and my very best pal, life is only so good because of you.

Thank you all for joining me on this excellent journey. I have a feeling we are still at the beginning and I'm delighted to have you all along for the ride.

Wednesday, 17 December 2014

Hair today...

I'm comfortable with the amount of body hair I have. Regular readers will have seen that I'm no gorilla, but I am by no means smooth all over. If forced to choose whether I'd have thick hair all-over or none below the neck I would go for the latter. Blame this on my porn viewing starting in the late 90s rather than 70s or 80s if you want; I like my muscles to be on show rather than hidden in a forest. Plus getting cum out of hair can be a real bore.

On females my preference is no hair anywhere below the neck except maybe some above the pussy. Japanese porn is full of very hairy ladies but all I can think of when I see this hair being played with are those gonk toys - not sexy. I always imagine having to fight through big hairy bushes in order to get to the fun stuff. Again, with little to no hair it is much easier to see the true lines of the body.

However, some of the shapes that pubic hair gets cut into can look ridiculous. Long thin lines? No thanks. Cute little heart shapes? Nope. My wife thinks that going completely bald makes her look pre-adolescent. I disagree, but wouldn't ever want her doing something she's not comfortable with.

I do occasionally trim my hair but appreciate the awful scratchy sensation this can cause for whoever I'm with, which is why I do so early enough for the scratchiness to grow away before we next play. And yes, shaving away hair around my cock really does make it look bigger.

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